Mary Morstan. 31. Veteran, OB/GYN, Adventurer, Ex-Killer, reformed, Sass master. This is the blog of the great and troubled Miss Morstan. {Welcome to our humble blog. This is an RP blog, and because i have had this blog for... 4 years now? Mary has two FC's, both Billie Piper and the gorgeous Amanda Abbington.}. {This blog can be a wee bit nasty, so this is your one warning, this is very sensitive stuff, guys. Please Message me to plot or just....DO IT. Please. I'm so lonely. Talk to me...}

 

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Impact play is a common kink that’s practiced in D/s dynamics and S&M. It can be a form of punishment, teasing, and funishment. Spanking is the most well-known form of impact play either with hands and brushes. However, other objects can be used depending on the amount of pain or bruising that wants to be inflicted.

Short range vs Long Range:

Short range objects include hand, brush, ruler, belt, paddle, or anything that requires you to stand fairly close to the spankee.

Long range objects include canes, crops, whips, cat o nine tails, and floggers.

Safety:

  • Practice before engaging in impact play if you’re using long range or hard equipment.
  • Always have your partner’s consent and a safe word. If you don’t have a safe word, use these colors:
    red = stop
    yellow = slow down or pause
    green = resume the scene
  • If the spankee is gagged or cannot speak, use a hand signal as safe words.
  • If you’re using a whip, practice with it before using it on someone. Aiming isn’t as easy as it looks and you could accidentally injure your sub/bottom.
    Also keep in mind that whips can break skin!
  • Never hit the following areas:
    Mid back - Your kidneys are located here
    Tailbone
    Spine
    Hips
  • These areas can be hit but with caution:
    Face (only with your hand)
    Crotch/genitalia
    Inner thighs
    Breasts/chest
  • If you spank someone with a cane or whip and the spankee bleeds, clean your equipment before using it on someone else.

A good thing to remember is that fatty areas work well with harder spankings and objects, while boney areas should not be hit with hard objects (like brushes and paddles) and should be hit moderately and lightly.

Don’t be afraid to attend dungeons and observe how others use their toys and ask questions.

Aftercare:

Aftercare is extremely important. Not only could you have bruises and welts to soothe but you have to treat subdrop also. If you’re not familiar with subdrop or subspace, refer to this post or read on Google.

Having an aftercare kit is a good start. It should include an icepack, wet cloths, bandaids, a blanket, water and Gatorade, pain relievers, and energy food.

Do not leave your sub or bottom alone after a scene. Hold them, hug them, kiss them, cuddle them or anything that lets you know that you love them and soothes them.

If you’re shaking, feeling lightheaded, panicking, or hyperventilating you should lie down and relax. I recommend taking deep breaths where you breathe in from your nose, hold it in, and then exhale until the next breath comes naturally. This is something that I was taught to do for panic attacks. This should help the tremors (shaking) stop, help you calm down, and bring your heart beat and breathing back to normal.

Sentence Meme (Secrets)

"I've got a secret to tell you but you have to promise you'll keep it to yourself?"

"Why do you smile as though you have a secret?"

"No one can keep a secret. That's why I'll be keeping this one to myself"

"You have to promise that you'll take this one to the grave with you"

"I know your secret"

"You're a terrible liar! I can tell that's you're hiding something"

"Stop being so secretive. I'm your boyfriend/girlfriend, you shouldn't hide things from me"

"You swore you would never tell anyone..."

"I'm never telling you my secrets again"

"Fuck it, I'm going to tell you something I've been keeping to myself for too long"

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Wandering Beasts by John Kenn

Kenn writes and directs television shows for children and when he’s not taking care of his own children, he draws monsters on post-it notes. His own “little window into a different work, made on office supplies.” 

headcanon meme

rocketcandycouture:

Put a symbol (or several) and a character/characters in my ask box, and I’ll give you a headcanon.

☾ - sleep headcanon

★ - sad headcanon

☆ - happy headcanon

☠ - angry/violent headcanon

✿ - Sex headcanon

■ - Bedroom/house/living quarters headcanon

♡ - romantic…

|| Dreaming of her-

Mary had left the doctor. It had not been mutual, but she needed to go back to her life. Things had been getting warmer between the two of them, and it scared Mary to possibly think that something could blossom between them… Something from the old soul that had once lived in her body. Rose. Why did she have to love Rose? Why couldn’t the doctor just love her for her?

Mary was miserable at home. It had been three years, and she was still miserable. Her dog passed away. She was completely alone… That’s when the doctor was supposed to save her… And she would come… Right?

Every night, Mary waited on the roof of her flat-complex, crying until the sun came out again.

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